When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, any girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, how to know that a guy wants love if you check whether his body is ready for "work and defense" is impossible.
Signs of arousal in men:
- Non-verbal signals.
- courtship
- Male body position.
- physical reactions.
Non-verbal cues
There are non-verbal body signals that can tell you just as well whether you want a man or not. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to fall in love with you, he will start to copy your actions at the subconscious level, this is expressed in repeating your movements and body positions. If the guy, on the other hand, starts playing "mirror" with you, this is a clear signal that he does not mind taking you to the bedroom.
During a conversation, an excited man will constantly close the distance between you, he does it absolutely automatically. In the process of communication, the distance between bodies slowly but surely decreases. The next stage is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that a man will start giving in, giving himself too much right. The cooler your relationship is, the less pronounced this stage will be. It can be detected by light contact with the hands and feet. This is a body language that clearly shows that a man is attracted to you. Pay attention to accidents that are usually not accidental at all.
courtship
During communication, an excited man does not miss the opportunity to pay attention to the object of his desire. If you sit at the table, he will fill your glass, bring you food, and in the case of a warm relationship, he will try to feed you with his own hands. The latter is a sure sign that "the client is ready", take him warmly, he will not go anywhere.
An excited man will help you sit on a chair and get up from it. He will give you outer clothes and help you put them on. He will not do all this just because of politeness. His masculine nature will tell him that this is an additional opportunity to make contact, to touch the object of his desire.
Male body position
When he sees a woman he is interested in, a guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, straightens his back, stretches his stomach, thereby revealing how harmonious and all the charms of his masculine figure are. If a guy is sitting, he automatically spreads his legs, revealing his groin. Spreading his legs is a gesture of a confident man, who noticed a decent woman.
If you stand opposite each other, then pay attention to the direction in which the toes of his shoes "look". Turning towards you means that he is interested in you.
physical reactions
Physiologically, the state of arousal is manifested not only in an erect penis. A man's breathing rate, voice, gaze changes, pulse quickens, blood pressure rises. If you see him adjusting his tie, which seems like he's suffocating, it's probably not because he's hot, but because he's literally dying to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and his gaze. If he is upset, he cannot hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe evenly and calmly, as in a normal state. His breathing will change.